Checking in, health challenge, travel plan change

9/15/26

Hello to my faithful readers! Thank you for following along with me, and thanks for your patience when I don’t post updates very frequently.

My last blog post was in late July, and at that time I was catching up on events from May.

Now it is mid-September—almost time for those of us in the northern hemisphere to shift from summer to fall—and so I find my planned “Northwest summer” wrapping up. I have spent much of it here in the Portland area, but I did have two cat sitting gigs in Olympia—one in late May and early June, and one that just wrapped up last week. I’ll share some photos here from the early-summer time there, because it was really beautiful.

Unfortunately, though, a couple weeks ago the fall/winter/spring travel plans I had excitedly shared here back in late June are now postponed, probably for another year. That is because the routine mammogram I had in August led to a follow-up ultrasound, which led to a follow-up biopsy, which led to a diagnosis of breast cancer—specifically ductal carcinoma in situ, or DCIS.

I certainly had not been expecting this, and as you might imagine, I can’t say I was happy to receive the news. However, I am doing my best to see what lies ahead as my alternative “new adventure/new journey,” and I’m curious to see what kinds of personal and spiritual growth, and new life insights and perspectives, may come from this. (One early blessing: I made an announcement post on social media that garnered an outpouring of emotional support so overwhelming that it left me teary. I am so grateful for all the love and support of the people in my life.)

To minimize any alarm you might be feeling on my behalf, I want to reassure that this cancer was caught very early by the routine mammogram, so the mass was only 6mm at that time. (I can’t even feel it.) It is considered to be stage 0 or 1 cancer. (I had never heard of stage 0 cancer!)

The medical team that was swiftly assembled for me at Oregon Health & Science University (OHSU) seem all wonderfully kind and competent. All of my—admittedly limited—medical experiences thus far have been good.

They have given me a very optimistic prognosis, so while I’m not looking forward to the physical discomfort and changes to my body in the coming months, I am anticipating that I will recover fully and well. Since I announced the diagnosis on social media, I have actually been contacted by probably close to ten women I know, telling me that they themselves, or a close relative of theirs, had survived a similar diagnosis and treatment plan, and that they have been thriving ever since. (Some of them for more than 20 years!)

My treatment will probably consist of a lumpectomy surgery in the next couple of weeks (my surgery consult is this Thursday, the 17th, where we will finalize that plan) followed by radiation and ongoing medical intervention in the form of hormone therapy, since my type of cancer is estrogen- and progesterone-receptor positive. Fortunately, they are not recommending chemo at this time. I am counting my lucky stars for that.

The entire treatment and recovery time will probably be about three months, I believe.

In light of that—along with very fortunately aligned timing of my current tenant moving out on the 17th as well—I have made the unexpected decision to move back into my condo in southeast Portland, probably until the end of the year, at which point I plan to return to cat sitting full time, and possibly traveling as well. I will have to wait and see how things play out before making any specific travel plans.

I think it will be surreal to step back across that threshold, which I have not crossed since September 10th, 2021, when I pedaled away on the beginning of my adventure. Almost exactly five years. It feels poignant.

This will give me a chance to check and see how things are holding up in the place. Maybe see if any repairs or upgrades need to be made. I hope I can visit with some of my old neighbors, many of whom still live in the building.

Although I had not planned to move back in there for at least several more years, it feels very right to me in this moment, given the circumstances. It will be nice to be in a comfortable, familiar space, in a convenient location, while I go through treatment and recovery. And I think the occasion of the five-year mark from having begun this new way of life will be a good chance to reflect, and have a little re-set, before embarking once again.

I think I’ll close this post here, but in the coming weeks I hope to write to keep you updated on my condition, and possibly also share some of the photo highlights from this summer, both beautiful nature scenes and cute furry kitties.

Meanwhile, I wish you all good health! Please enjoy these photos from my time in Olympia in late May and early June.

The bike path from the train station to Angel kitty’s house
More of the bike path
Downtown Olympia scene
A day trip to Seattle, visiting my sister and her sweetie
I was very surprised and saddened to see that this garden would close. I was very glad to enjoy it one last time.
Mochi!
Angel!
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Watershed Park
Emerging from the park

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Brightwood, Oregon and Tsuru Island Japanese Garden

7/25/26

Hello from Happy Valley, Oregon! This is a suburb on the southeastern edge of Portland. I’m so far behind on my blog posts now (the photos are from May!) that I have reached a sort of full-circle moment: I am now back on a subsequent sit with Rocket and Einstein (the black and black-and-white cats, respectively, pictured here) and about to co-host a Servas potluck in Brightwood tomorrow with Mary, whom I met during the events in May that I’m writing about here!

I may or may not get more “caught up” here soon—I’m giving myself grace and allowing myself to enjoy a mostly quiet and relaxing summer—but I actually haven’t done too many photogenic nor newsworthy things since this time in May, so by the time I depart Oregon around late September, I think I should be back on track.

When I was here in Happy Valley in May, I got to enjoy some quality time with these two sweeties, whom many of you may remember from previous sits. I’m happy to have them as regulars. And Sandy, their human, is a wonderful gardener, so her back yard and covered porch are a beautiful place to relax. (The other day, now in July, we had a very Oregon-uncharacteristic thunderstorm, with heavy rain. It was really cool to sit out there and enjoy it!)

After all my wonderful experiences with Servas folks this past winter (and for several years prior) upon my arrival back in Portland this April I decided to explore some of the local Portland-area folks. On the website I found a really cool woman named Mary, living well outside of Portland in the tiny forest town of Brightwood, near Mt. Hood. I asked if she would like to get together for lunch, and we met up at her stunning home overlooking the Sandy River. Tomorrow, a small group of us will gather there for a social potluck I’m organizing for “far east side” Portland-area Servas members.

Mary’s Servas profile stood out to me because she is a very active volunteer at the Gresham (Tsuru Island) Japanese Garden. I have enjoyed visiting this garden many times over the years. And lately, people involved with that garden—including Mary—have also been involved with the Oregon State Penitentiary’s healing garden. What a small world. Mary mentioned that she had even met Johnny (Cofer, my former romantic partner and current close friend, whose idea it was to build the prison garden in the first place) when she visited the prison garden a while ago on behalf of the Tsuru Island garden.

She had also mentioned Little Free Libraries in her profile—she has one at the end of her driveway—which, as always, reminded me of the wonderful serendipity in 2022 that allowed me to meet Rick Brooks, the co-founder of Little Free Libraries, in Princeton, Illinois.

I took two buses from here in Happy Valley to reach Mary’s house. The buses are run by SAM: Sandy Area Metro. One bus took me to downtown Sandy, where I once again admired the large mural on the side of the building adjacent to the small transit center downtown. It appeared to very skillfully combine many natural and cultural sides to this former logging town.

Imagine my surprise, then, when upon my arrival at Mary’s enchanted woodland domicile, I saw another stunning mural on her garage door… and met the neighbor who had painted it… who turned out to be the same artist who had painted the downtown Sandy mural! And she then joined us for lunch, too!

We had a wonderful lunch, with Mary and me and her two neighor-artist friends.

Then Mary drove me back home, but on the way back, we stopped at the Gresham Japanese Garden. The garden is undergoing major reconstruction, and is therefore closed to the public. But since Mary is a very involved volunteer, she escorted me in and I got to see the work in progress.

During our drive there, it had rained pretty hard, so we didn’t think we were even going to want to walk in the garden. But as soon as we stepped out of the car, the clouds parted and some sun rays peeked out.

What a magical day.

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Next fall/winter/spring’s Amtrak itinerary!

6/28/26

Hello all, and happy summer to those here in the northern hemisphere! (Not sure if I’ve got any readers currently in the southern hemisphere, but if so, happy winter to you!)

Portland is overcast and rainy today; our consistent sunny and dry summer weather “officially” begins on July 4th each year, and it looks like we’re on track for that.

I want to share some photos at the end of the post of the next cat I sat for—the illustrious Princess Savannah Kumquat—as well as some beautiful photos of my trip with my friend Viv to the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden.

But first! I’m excited to share the tentative itinerary I’ve been dreaming up to escape our next chilly and rainy season.

I’d love to find paid cat sits (anywhere from about a week to a month) in many of these areas, as well as just cool people to meet up with. So, if you know of anyone in these areas who might be interested in either of those possibilities, please feel free to put me in touch! (For cat sits, feel free to share my page with the person: www.dreamintochange.com/cat-sitting )

As most of you know, I have a dream to travel every mile of track in Amtrak’s network. I estimate that I am about 80% of the way there, especially after checking off four more segments this past fall, winter, and spring, in Illinois, Virginia, and the Carolinas.

The next big segment I want to cross off my list is the section on the Texas Eagle train between Chicago and Fort Worth. I have previously traveled the segment of that line from Los Angeles to the Dallas-Fort Worth area, but not north of Dallas. Along this line, southbound from Chicago, are two more rail sections I’ve never done: St. Louis to Kansas City (never visited either of those cities) and Fort Worth to Oklahoma City. I’ve never been to Oklahoma, and sadly, that Heartland Flyer route seems to be on the chopping block at the end of this year due to a funding shortfall. So, I want to make sure to experience it while it’s there!

My general plan is to stay here in Portland through September (and if you know of anyone looking for a cat sitter in the Portland area during August or September, again, feel free to put us in touch! Those two months are totally open at this point.) Then I would travel to the following cities at least, and possibly also others along the way (see the lavender outline of my route on the map):

Chicago

St. Louis

Kansas City (day trip only, since that train doesn’t have a baggage car)

Fort Worth

Oklahoma City (day trip for the same reason)

Austin

San Antonio

Tucson

Tempe/Phoenix area (I’m still dreaming of a cat sit in the Culdesac Tempe development!)

Palm Springs

San Diego

Los Angeles

San Jose

Roseville (where I plan to reprise last fall’s monthlong 6-cat sit!)

And then! Around mid-May, I may depart from my standard rail mode of transportation, because I’d like to find a way to either find a carpool or make bus transit work to see the Avenue of the Giants! This has been on my list for many years, and I’d really like to make it happen this time. I’d also really like to see some other redwoods in California and/or southern Oregon.

I would arrive back in Portland probably in late May.

I’m so excited!! I love dreaming up these journeys, and I’m looking forward to visiting many of you, meeting cool new people, and connecting with cats and beautiful natural spots in many different states.

With that, I’ll leave you these photos of the kitty princess and the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden (in early May, which was peak bloom!)

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More troll magic in Oregon

6/20/26

You may recall that back in April I visited a cool installation of Danish artist Thomas Dambo’s trolls, in Raleigh, NC’s Dorothea Dix Park.

But we have one of his trolls here in the Portland area, too! I had intended to visit before I began traveling last fall, but I never prioritized it since it is in the southwestern suburb of Tigard, not easy or quick to reach by bike or transit.

But there is another really cool thing in Tigard: The Tigard Grange Community Food Project. The aim of the project is to prevent food waste from grocery stores. Volunteers collect donated food—close to expiration dates—from area grocery stores, including some upscale ones. They store the food briefly at the Tigard Grange Hall, inviting other area nonprofits with missions to feed hungry folks to come and take all the food they need to serve their communities.

After this, there is still substantial food left over. So, volunteers turn the grange hall into a temporary grocery store. Twice a week on Monday and Thursday afternoons, the public is welcome to come and shop. For a $5 admission donation—which helps to sustain the project—you can fill up to three standard grocery bags with produce (some of it organic), bread products, prepared foods, canned goods, and more. These days, like so many folks, I can use all the help I can get with grocery bills, and I also like participating in a program to minimize food waste. So, although it usually takes significant time and three buses to get there, I go when I have the time.

Fresh back in the Portland area, and excited to be a “tourist in my own city,” I thought I’d combine a grocery excursion with a trip to the troll!

It was cool to take the bus to the Nordia House and historic Fogelbo House, affiliated respectively with Norway and Sweden. Of course it was fitting to have an art installation by a Danish artist tucked into the trees there.

It was a small area, but fun to walk around and feel like I was in a Scandinavian fairy tale for a short while.

When I left, even the city bus stop shelter was decorated in the theme.

After one more bus ride and a short bike ride, I arrived to the grange and walked out with this $5 haul, excited for the mix of fresh and “treat” items that I might not normally get at the store.

Next up: the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden, at peak bloom!

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Portland reentry + cycling the Columbia River Gorge

6/15/26

Hello all, and happy almost-summer to those here in the northern hemisphere!

I have gotten way behind on my blog posts—sorry! I returned to Portland on April 26th, and I’ve had some lovely times in nature and with cats since then. I’ll catch up as soon as I can!

Upon my arrival back in Oregon, for the first few days I enjoyed alternately sunny and cloudy skies over the familiar sights of my beloved adopted home city. Spring was out in full splendor, and I soaked it in via neighborhood walks and bike rides as much as I could.

And, within my first week back, I took care of a new pair of kitties, Suave and Bean.

They lived near the Gateway district of Portland, in outer NE. One reason I chose this sit was because the Gateway Transit Center is where one can board a bus out along the Columbia River Gorge. I had been looking forward to cycling some roads and bike paths out there, for my first time! In fact, one of my Warmshowers hosts in Florida had highly recommended the Old Columbia River Highway as a beautiful place to ride.

So, I made it a priority as soon as I returned. I took a $10 bus—the Columbia Gorge Express—from Gateway out to Hood River. I had made that bus trip before, but I had never bicycled out in that area. That day, after stopping at a vegan bakery for a quick lunch, I bicycled to the tiny (population 430) town of Mosier. I hit the weather and the season exactly right: the views were unbelievably spectacular.

One thing I really came to appreciate during my travels in Florida this winter was how many small transit companies there are, serving small communities in vital ways. I made heavy use of them this past winter, in places such as St. Augustine and Gainesville. I have always been quite a transit geek, but this winter’s experience made me all the more determined to explore and appreciate Oregon’s small-community transit agencies, too. The CAT system (Columbia Area Transit, aptly abbreviated for me!) is one such wonderful example, covering the Hood River area. After my 8.3-mile (13.3-km) ride to Mosier—most of which was on a car free path—I was able to hop on a $1 bus to take me back to Hood River, where I transferred to the $10 return bus to Gateway.

I’m looking forward to more multimodal nature explorations this summer!

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Chicago + the many-splendored rail journey to Portland

6/7/26

Pretty much just photos this time! The ride from Washington, DC to Portland took about three days, and I did it almost all in one shot (which is always fun for me!)

I didn’t get any pics between DC and Chicago—much of which was overnight anyway—but I had a several-hour layover in Chicago, so I enjoyed some relaxing views of the bean and the river, and stopped for lunch at a vegan Mexican place where I enjoyed a torta.

Then I boarded the train to Portland, which was to take almost exactly 48 hours.

Scenery was mostly beautiful sunny and cloudy wide expanses, but as we got closer to Glacier National Park in Montana, the temps dipped significantly, and we were shocked and delighted to see snow!

I had taken this westbound train twice before, once in the spring and once in late August, and by the time we reached Glacier on those trips, it was after dark! I was so tickled to see this wintry weather (from the cozy comfort of the train!) before we lost all the light.

When we woke up on the second morning, the dining car and half the passenger cars had been disconnected and sent on their way to Seattle, while we Portland-bound folk were lucky enough to retain the sightseer lounge car. We spent hours hugging the bank of the beautiful Columbia River, watching the gorge unfold lazily.

And then… we were in Portland!

After a wonderful almost eight months away, it felt good to be back. I’ll be in the NW, mostly in the Portland area, for the summer. (I’m dreaming up my next fall-winter-spring journey as we speak, getting ready to cover more new-to-me track while escaping the NW weather!)

I’ll be sharing photos of my nature sojourns in the NW over the summer. I hope you’re all enjoying the nature and weather wherever you are!

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Resting at the homestead, then on to DC

5/25/26

This will be a short post, mostly just photos.

Before heading back to Portland by train (pics of that journey coming next!) I spent about a week and a half at the house where I grew up in semi-rural northern Virginia. As you may recall, I had spent a similar time there this past November.

This time I was extra excited, because in addition to spending time with my parents, I had been looking forward all winter to a family reunion at the homestead this spring. Although my extended family is small, we had never had such a reunion… and this time, there was to be a new baby attending from New York! This is the first (and almost certainly will be the only) baby in this “next generation,” since my sister and I have never had kids. But our cousin recently did.

However, although we did have a very brief but enjoyable lunch get-together at the homestead one day, unfortunately the reunion plans fell victim to several illnesses.

First was my own: as I alluded in the last post, I seemed to have picked up a nasty 24-hour GI bug during my time in Richmond. It was quite unpleasant for me for that day and night, but thankfully it seemed to get out of my system quickly. However, within a few days it had made its way into my father’s system too, and took him out for several days. It appears he may have shared it with my visiting uncle, as well. (Word to the wise—GI bugs can remain contagious for up to three or four days once symptoms resolve; take all the precautions you can!)

Meanwhile, the new baby in New York had come down with a cold, and then spread it to both his parents… so that branch of the family didn’t make the trip, and none of us got to meet the baby! (Fortunately, my parents had already met him a few months ago, but I, my sister and her partner visiting from Seattle, and my aunt and uncle visiting from North Carolina will have to wait for a future opportunity.)

So, it was kind of a weird and not-entirely-pleasant time at the homestead.

The good news was that the weather was mostly lovely, and I spent a lot of time outside just resting—in the gazebo, by the pergola, and in the hammock—and that was very refreshing and rejuvenating. And since I grew up from a newborn in that house, I always enjoy “coming home” to it.

(And enjoying my mother’s home cooking! She always makes wonderful vegan meals when I visit.)

On our last day, an Uber driver came out “into the wilds” to pick up my sister and her partner and me, and drove us to the Ashburn transit center. Those two boarded a metro train for DC to continue their train travels to points north, while I bicycled along the W & OD bike trail to visit my friend Michelle in Reston.

It was good to have another chance to connect with her and her two adorable doggies for a night.

The next day, I biked to the DC Metro (it feels like a cool sci-fi cavern in there in the underground parts) to return to Amtrak’s grand Union Station.

There, I would board a train to Chicago (17-hour overnight ride) and then transfer the same day to a 48-hour train back to Portland.

Scenic pics to come!

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DC area: approaching the homeland

5/20/26

I disembarked the train from Richmond into Washington, DC’s beautiful Union Station, and was met directly outside by half of my Warmshowers hosting pair for the next two nights, Jessica. On the bike ride back to her home in Bethesda, Maryland, she led me on a whirlwind tour of some of DC’s iconic spots (though I didn’t really take pics of them, sorry! I had already seen the monuments many times in my childhood). I did get a few pics of some breathtaking wisteria! That’s Jessica on the left in the first pic, talking to another admirer we encountered.

We started out on the popular Rock Creek Trail, then transferred to the one I had been really looking forward to—the Capital Crescent Trail—which did not disappoint with its beauty, especially in the springtime golden hour light.

From that trail I could even catch some glimpses of the iconic C & O Canal Towpath, which runs all the way from DC to Cumberland, Maryland, and then transfers to the Great Allegheny Passage (GAP) trail, which can take you all the way to Pittsburgh.

Many cyclists like to spend about a week biking from Pittsburgh to DC or vice versa on this trail combo. (In 2022, I biked 15 miles/24 km out and back on the GAP trail from Pittsburgh during my year of travels, and was shocked to encounter my Houston Warmshowers host couple out cycling there as well! I had stayed with them three months earlier.)

The next day, Jessica was leading a 35-mile bike ride, but I was feeling tired and ready for a rest, so I spent the day relaxing and doing some Cambly English tutoring in the beautiful home she shares with her husband Henry.

The following day, I set out to meet my parents at our family homestead in Waterford, Virginia, in western Loudoun County. As you may recall, I visited the homestead (which we affectionately refer to as Toad Hall, after the dilapidated mansion in The Wind in the Willows) back in November.

This time, I biked back down the Capital Crescent Trail from Bethesda, and found the trail much more crowded than it had been during the evening two days before. There were lots of folks out walking, and a few cyclists.

I stopped to enjoy some of the DC sights again, such as the (Francis Scott) Key Bridge and the Watergate Hotel, on my way to the Foggy Bottom DC Metro stop.

From there, I caught a train to Herndon, Virginia, then disembarked and began to cycle on the W & OD Bike Trail (which I had ridden in full back in 2019, fulfilling a decades-long dream!)

This time I only biked about ten miles/16 km to Leesburg, where my parents met me and loaded my rig into their car.

I wasn’t feeling great, though, which was a sign of some health unpleasantness to come. I tried to chalk it up to the hot sunny day and fatigue after an entire winter of traveling, but by the time I got to the house, I felt exhausted and had little appetite for dinner.

But before all this—and before my parents arrived at our agreed-upon spot in Leesburg—I had the chance to walk around a bit at the “downtown” streets I remembered so well from my childhood. Leesburg has sprawled dramatically since my childhood days in the ‘70s and ‘80s, but the downtown area—with the Tally Ho theater, where I think I recall watching the original Star Wars in 1978, still going strong—looks much as I remember it, including the old county courthouse.

Then I sat on a bench in Raflo Park waiting for them to arrive. That park is new since I moved away in 1990. I had met the (now late) Frank Raflo once, at the Loudoun County Democratic headquarters during my high school years, when I volunteered for my first political campaign, to help elect Virginia’s first-ever Black governor, Douglas Wilder.

And in Raflo Park, right in front of my bench, was a piece of art containing a quote that reminded me of my former partner, now close friend, Johnny: “No Mud, No Lotus.” That is the name of a book by Thich Nhat Hanh, the (also now late) Vietnamese Buddhist monk and peace activist. Johnny had once requested—perhaps ten years ago—that he and I read the book together, he from his prison cell and I from the outside. I enthusiastically agreed at the time, but since both of us are very bad at actually reading books, neither of us ended up actually ordering it… so, unfortunately, that has not yet transpired. But it felt like a sweet little inspirational full-circle moment to see that sign in the park.

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Virginia adventures

5/14/26

After my lovely visit with my aunt and uncle and their dogs in North Carolina, I boarded the train in Cary bound for Richmond, Virginia.

I was looking forward to some bike and train explorations, and I got them! The train part, especially, had taken me literally months of research and turning over possibilities in my head. It finally came together!

First, I arrived at the home of my first wonderful Richmond Warmshowers hosts, Pat and Steve. They live, with their two dogs, within three miles of the Staples Mill Amtrak station. (Richmond is one of very few cities with two Amtrak stations. One is conveniently located downtown, but the main one that serves all the stations I needed was Staples Mill, pretty far northwest of town, so it was great to find hosts nearby.) Pat and Steve were incredibly warm and welcoming, and had a lovely guest suite in the basement, so it was a perfect place to stay. I chatted with the two of them while snuggling on the couch with their dog Lefty, and then I set out on my bike to explore a nearby park.

The difference in the “neighborhood look” from Florida was striking. A whole different kind of architectural and spring-nature beauty here.

The next day, I set out on my quest to cross two more Amtrak line segments off my map: Richmond to Newport News, and Richmond to Norfolk. This had been a difficult proposition because both lines only run once per day, and both lines—although they run all the way to New York—use trainsets without baggage cars, since they are considered commuter lines. This meant I could not take my rig on them to spend a night or two or three in either of those cities, unfortunately; I would have to do it as a day trip, or else stay in a hotel for a night with no change of clothes and minimal toiletries. (Or stay with a Servas family at a nearby nudist resort in Ivor, Virginia, which I also considered!) The timing of the lines was such that it was an iffy proposition as to whether I could do it all in one day. That was another reason I appreciated staying with Pat and Steve: they were very flexible as to my dates to stay with them. If I were to miss the connection in Norfolk, I could stay in a hotel there that night, and then return to them the following night.

So I departed their house that morning and biked to the Staples Mill station. I boarded the train to Newport News, and the two-hour ride passed uneventfully.

From the station there, I boarded an Amtrak connector bus to Norfolk. That 40-minute bus ride across the James River/Burwell Bay/Atlantic Ocean (not sure where the line is drawn) was a bit stressful for me: we moved along at what felt like a reasonable pace, but then slowed to a crawl, and then a stop, before we reached the water. Apparently this is a normal traffic pattern, but I kept worrying that I would miss my connection in Norfolk. (Hardly anyone would need or want to make the loop I was making, so Amtrak would have no reason to make any effort to sync the two lines, or delay the departure to wait for the bus’s arrival, like they do on some lines that are commonly used in conjunction with each other.)

I was further surprised when, after we started moving again, we descended into a tunnel to cross the bay! Then about halfway across, we emerged from the tunnel onto a bridge. (My father later explained to me the military reason for this structure, but in the moment it just seemed surreal.)

We made it to the Norfolk station with minutes to spare, and I raced my bike the few blocks from the bus drop-off to the train, boarding just in time to make the connection. I was sad not to have seen any of Newport News nor Norfolk, but thoroughly pleased to be able to mark these lines off my goal of riding every mile of track in Amtrak’s network!

The ride back to Richmond was pleasant and uneventful.

The following afternoon, I said goodbye to Pat and Steve and the doggies, and set out from their northwestern location to the home of my next Warmshowers hosts, out on the eastern edge of town. The ride between them was beautiful.

Lauren, one of my new hosts, met me partway at a lovely park, and we took a goldenhour stroll.

She led me across a really cool bike and pedestrian bridge, which sadly the photo doesn’t do full justice. It was very swoopy and cool!

When we arrived at their house, they were having a family celebration for her husband Alex’s birthday. His mother and their 6-year-old son had made a very elaborate mountain-biking-themed cake for him! I was thoroughly impressed.

The next day, I set out to ride the Virginia Capital Trail. It is a very long trail, so I knew I wouldn’t be able to do the whole thing, but I first headed back in toward town, and reached that end of the trail.

I sat in the pedestrian plaza by the water and just soaked in the relaxing sunshine.

Then I made my way back out, continuing as far as I could into the countryside. The weather was perfect for such a ride, and the season made it breathtakingly beautiful.

Possibly the coolest part of all? After at least an hour of just lounging on various sunny benches in Dorey Park, I had set out on my way back to the house when I crossed a bridge on the trail just in time to see a small lizard scurrying away(!) Although I didn’t have the opportunity to stop and really connect with this lizard like I had with the ones in Florida, I had now experienced my first-ever Virginia lizard sighting, after having lived in that state for 15 years!

Now I’ll see if I can manage to find a lizard in the wild in Oregon this summer… (I’ve heard there are alligator lizards there, but I’ve never seen one. Maybe now that I have been “primed” by all the lizard connections this winter, it will finally happen?)

Then there was one last bit of magic on my way back: I got to ride on Darbytown Road.

Locals will tell you—correctly—that this is not a good road for cycling. There are no bike lanes, and drivers take the twists and turns uncomfortably fast.

But this road—which I had never seen until that day—had a special meaning for me.

Growing up in then-rural western Loudoun County, in northern Virginia, we had a neighbor family, the McLeans, who moved in when I was in second or third grade. Laurie, the youngest of three daughters, was just a year younger than me, and we became friends.

I only briefly met her older sisters, Kathy and April. But many years later—when I was in my thirties, living in Portland—I somehow learned that April had become a singer-songwriter. I went online and found some of her songs. Her latest album at that time was called Darbytown Road, and the title track—a song to her mother—brought me to tears when I heard it. (I tried to find a link to share it with you, but that song doesn’t seem to be available unless you buy the whole album for $5.)

So, it felt like a cool full-circle moment to me to ride on this road. (I had forgotten that the McLeans had lived in Richmond before they moved to Waterford.)

I hummed the song to myself as I pedaled along.

And even one more bit of magic: my next turn, after Darbytown, was onto Oregon Street!

My time in Richmond was rich indeed.

Next up: the DC area and Bethesda, Maryland!

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Trolls in North Carolina

5/5/26

This will be a short post, mostly just some pics from my fun time visiting my aunt and uncle and their two dogs near Raleigh, North Carolina.

I took the overnight train from Orlando, and arrived in the morning to the Cary station, where my uncle picked me up.

The next day, he took me to Raleigh’s Dix Park, named after Dorothea Dix, a social reformer who advocated on behalf of poor mentally ill people. It was a beautiful spring day to be out in that spacious place.

The park is host to one of Danish artist Thomas Dambo’s many installations of troll sculptures, made from recycled materials. (I had known about the Portland-area troll for a year or so before I began my travels this past fall, but I hadn’t found the time to get out to the west side of town to see it. Watch for a future post, though!)

Four of the five trolls in this park were hidden in wooden areas, which made them fun to discover.

Most of the rest of my four days with my aunt and uncle were spent quietly, catching up and talking about my travels, the dogs, my aunt’s beautiful art, and the like.

One extra cool bit of magic: I saw an anole at their house! I’ve visited my aunt and uncle a number of times over the years, including this past fall—and I did know from my aunt’s Facebook posts that sometimes they see anoles there—but I had never personally encountered one.

After all the “lizard magic” I experienced this winter in Florida, it was really cool to see this one on the front fence. I even dared to dream that I might see a lizard in Virginia, though that seemed extremely unlikely. (Both Virginia and Oregon apparently are home to a few native lizards, but in all my time in both states—the vast majority of my life—I have never seen a lizard in the wild.)

Next up: a beautiful bicycle trail in Richmond, Virginia.

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